Dating : (M20) I have zero experience in dating and have no clue how or where to begin. Give me tips on how do I approach girls.
I have zero experience in dating because I was always either shy or feared rejection. I also am not a guy who drinks or goes out to bars. I am mainly an introvert so meeting a lot of people is straining on me mentally. Its not impossible just uncomfortable. Starting a conversation is hard for me but once its started carrying it through isnt a problem at all. I also tend to tense up a lot in front of girls so maybe thats a reason why not many girls have shown interest in me before. But the main issue for me is that I am not interested in a flick. What I want/look for is a lomg term relationship and I feel that its bery hard at my age and generation.
So what do you guys think. Should I wait a few more years before really starting to date or I am fine the way I am now. And what areas should I improve myself. Also I am a college student so I cant go out on dates as much as you may expect me to (cuz cash) so please keep that in mind too.
Girls your age don’t care how much money you spend on them or on a date. If they do then you don’t want them anyway because they will ditch you for the next rich guy who comes along.
Long term relationships happen organically, unless you order a bride online you can never know if a relationship will become long term until you are in it. It’s good to tell girls you are looking for a long term relationship but don’t fear dating because it might not be long term. Does that make sense?
If you are an introvert you will ptobably have the best time and chance with another introvert. Keep your eyes open to which girls are interested in the same activities you are. Maybe there is a girl who reads quietly in the library, sit next to her and read without being creepy about it then one day pass her a note or compliment her clothes.
If you get to the point of going out on a date, keep it simple and go for a walk. Take a sweet snack like cherries or a cupcake to share. Nothing fancy.