Dating : Need advice
I started dating this girl a few weeks ago. We’ve been on 3 dates so far and all of them have been really good (at least from my end). We’ve shared a first kiss, I can make her laugh and she makes me laugh, and have a lot in common. This is this first girl I’ve felt this kind of connection with in a long time. The problem is she is very busy (works ~25 hours week whilst studying full time) which means scheduling meet-ups is difficult. She was meant to come over to mine like 5 days ago but bailed on the day due to illness… She said we should reschedule for the weekend but despite us messaging heaps, I never brought it up because I was starting to feel stupid asking her to meet up and getting told that shes too busy all the time… it never transpired and we haven’t met up since but still texted daily. Obviously that sounds like a red flag (I’m not stupid) but the thing is the texts she sends suggests that shes into me. I decided to stop texting her to see if she would make a move to meet up again and to just leave the ball in her court. It’s been a day without anything now… Should I just move on?
If you want to meet just suggest a day to meet up and where/what to do. If she says she is too busy that day, ask her when then. If she can’t come up with one, time to move on.
I’m in the same boat so would love to hear some advise
> I decided to stop texting her to see if she would make a move to meet up again and to just leave the ball in her court.
This is what I was going to suggest and is the right thing to do. You’ve made the effort, she should be returning in kind.
I’ve danced this dance before. If she doesn’t come up with a good day on her own, move on.