Dating : Overweight and terrified of dating. Anyone else feel the same?
So i (22 female) has been overweight frlm teen til now. I come from a family where healthy food was not a priority but soda and snacks certianly were. Regardless im trying to change my bad habits. Everytime i see people dating i cant help but feel utterly hopeless. Im def obese at this point and even tho i really want a boyfriend i cant help but think about how few people would actually even try when im a big person.
Does any bigger people know how to gain confidence ect. To even downloade a dating app. Like i cant even download it cause i feel im too fat and people wont even give me a chance lol.
Any other people feel the same??
I was just discussing with my friend (both in 30s) last night at the bar about how silly it is that the shit we felt bad about or were teased about in regards to our bodies when we were younger is now our source of confidence, something we are proud of now. For example she got teased for having a big butt by her siblings and cousins growing up. she was shaking that fat ass dancing that night getting a lot of attention from many people in the bar. she had loads of fun n felt sexy when we left.
Dating is a risk so be smart n know your worth, sometimes the only way out of your fear is through it.
Lose weight.
You can do it with some effort though. Your body will naturally burn, just make sure you eat a caloric deficit.
Running 2-3 times a week in conjunction with a caloric deficit will shred fat.
Since your a women on OLD however you don’t have to do this. You’ll eventually find a guy who will date you.
>Does any bigger people know how to gain confidence ect.
Yes. Lose weight.
I’m a guy who likes big girls. We’re a lot more common than you think. Try WooPlus.
I mean you could always lose weight overtime but if you dont there are people who like overweightness…i mean theres even a fetish for it where they encourage the weight gain but i feel like i should say this because it’s important to know if you decided on fallowing any advice because either side could end up good or bad and you should know what you want for you’re life
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