Dating : tinder vs bumble as a man?
Guys, which have you had more success on? Tinder or Bumble? Tinder may have more users, but Bumble lets you know more about the person beforehand and it feels like the women of Bumble are of greater… IDK… quality?
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That depends, are you a solid 9/10 or higher and are you willing to put in 40 hours a week? If the answer is yes to one or both of those criteria, then there’s not much of a difference other than who starts the conversation.
In my experience on these apps, I get more matches on Tinder and very few on Bumble, though I have been using Tinder longer.
The majority of the girls I match with on Tinder either don’t reply, don’t continue the conversation beyond the first day or few hours (ghosting) or aren’t interested in actually meeting. Which to me, means they’re just on there for validation.
On Bumble I find most girls are more serious about dating and are looking for a relationship. But out of the two times I have had it I get maybe 3 matches in the first 24 hours, then nothing. And these girls either aren’t my type or have kids, which I’m not into. Though I think this has a lot to do with the area I live in.
neither, sorry
Tinder. Women on Bumble are way, way more selective because they have to message first. Overall, the quality of the userbases is pretty much the same as well
Bumble is becoming trash. I’ve had more matches on Tinder that wouldn’t unmatch me right away.
I’ve heard Bumble is more for people who want relationships but I never witnessed it there. More like, they just want attention. The conversations all die out after a few messages or the matches never reply. Plus, a few unmatch me either after the first couple of messages or soon after matching. It gets annoying.
Tinder + Gold for unlimited swipes and 5 superlikes/day (its $5/mo, and has a pretty good ROI imo).
bumble is trash because: the women are more picky and they have to message first…and they will either 1. not message first, or 2. just say « hello ».