Dating : Venting/confused/opinions
So i’ve been dating this guy for the past two months, completely different from what i usually date and just over all amazing honestly. well… I feel like we’re not compatible in bed and it’s killing me. We’re both slightly bigger which i’ve never really been with anyone that’s bigger ive usually only been with skinnier guys, anyway when it comes to the bedroom he can get me off, but he wants me to be more adventurous which i have no problem doing and ive honestly never been told that. Part of my problem is that i slightly feel awkward with him because hes so different in bed then what im used to. Usually in bed im dominated and told what to do or demanded to but with him i get none of that. Now to top it off the only way hes gotten off is by me jerking him off( hes only let me twice) or by him jerking himself and me just kinda talking dirty to him ( ive never had to do this with anyone before). He wont cum inside me which i get he has two kids and im not on birth control but with all of this i literally feel so insecure. I like him alot but with how much i read into everything and im not sure how to go about all this i literally just keep distancing myself from him and i really dont wanna let this one go.
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Any advice or ways to make me feel better or less insecure would be wonderful 🙂😅
Why not just get on birth control then..? Seems like a simple solution if you want him to finish in you so you feel better at least.