Dating : Women are weird, if you try too hard (act desperate) that doesn’t work, but if you don’t try that doesn’t work either
I would say being desperate is No.1 worst thing you could do on a date or with women. But you can’t act uninterested either, or behave aggressive, cause then the girl will not go for you (though this works better than the first one). I can’t figure out how to make the women date you or go in bed, some guys can get laid every week without much effort. If I don’t put effort into it, nothing happens. It also seems from my life and dating experience that girls do not care if you have career goals, a steady job, or property (I would expect them to flock to me just cause all of that, let’s be honest) and go for these bad guys-which in many times means criminals. Do they not like men who work hard?
I don’t know where to start.
Your post is a progression of red flags. You arnt having any luck because you say things like you « can’t figure out how to make the women date you or go to bed with you ». As a heads up, only rapists make ‘the women’ go to bed. Honestly, improve your social skills and you might have some luck.