Dating : Women? How Would You Feel If You Were With A Guy And He Tells You He Wants To Wait To Have Sex
How would you feel if the guy you were dating told you he wanted to wait to have sex
If you were dating a guy or your boyfriend told you he wanted to wait to have sex? would you be turned off, would you loose interest, or think he’s playing games or something?
If it was the other way around nobody complains. Why can’t guys tell their partner to wait without getting dumped? Am I the only one thinking like this?
My boyfriend wanted to wait too & that’s perfectly okay! Don’t over think it! Probably wants to take things slow honestly!!
I would respect his decision
Waiting for how long? Days? Weeks? Til marriage?
Well … he wouldn’t be my boyfriend unless we already established sexual compatibility.
No judgment. I would wonder why though.
What kind of girl are you doing this for?
If she’s someone who’s had tons of hookups and one night stands, then this is a pointless thing that you’re doing.
I’d respect that.
I’d like that.
I would consider it a blessing lol
I would respect him for it
Not exactly, I think it’s a common misconception that men constantly want sex. Some men are more conservative over their bodies and that’s honestly really cool to see. In fact, it would kind of build up the anticipation for me. Don’t feel insecure about it, I can see how that could happen because it’s societally pushed that men want sex all the time. So him not wanting to do the thang with you might make you feel like maybe he’s not attracted to you. I would say talk to him about it, and also try using the time in between now and your first time anticipating it :))
I’d assume they were lying, honestly. However I’d be fine with it, other than the lying part, because it happens to be my preference as well. I like to get to know people before being physically involved with them.
It depends on his age, how long he wants to wait, and why. In my experience, most guys over 21 who want to wait past 3 or 4 dates either have a low sex drive, or they aren’t very attracted to women.
I might lose interest. Ive had sex quite early (second date) in all my relationships.