POF : Telling someone you don’t want to meet again
I’ve had three dates with someone and it feels really awkward to tell them I don’t think it’s going to work out. What’s the best approach?
By. Citko76
I’ve had three dates with someone and it feels really awkward to tell them I don’t think it’s going to work out. What’s the best approach?
By. Citko76
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Just be honest. They will appreciate that you aren’t just ghosting them, or worse, sticking around for someone you aren’t into.
« I have enjoyed the time we have spent together, but i just don’t feel a connection and I don’t see us moving forward and working out. I hope you can understand, and aren’t too disappointed. Thanks for everything.
Just be honest. You can say hey I had a nice time but I just don’t see this going any further. Best of luck to you in your search
Like a band aid. right off!
Get over that awkward feeling, people don’t want you to waste their time.
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If you are worried they will turn crazy over it, the chances were that if they do, they were crazy to begin with and nothing you say will have a different effect.
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Just say you don’t feel a connection and don’t want to pursue it anymore, its a bit odd you took three dates to figure it but better late than never.
If you’ve been smart enough not to give out your number, just delete the pof profile. It’s the simplest way and it’s best to be off the site anyway the way it is now.
I can’t even be bothered trawling it for casual sex anymore; the quality has gone down and the quantity of whales and timewasters has gone up. Not good combo.
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Tell them straight up like an adult. They will respect you for this and you will feel better. No need to string something along you aren’t into. That is the worst for both parties. And don’t do the ghosting approach. No one likes this, even though it is widely accepted these days.