Dating : First date options
So there’s this girl I’m talking to, IMO is going well the only problem is the texting but Rn since finals are coming up we are busy so it’s all good. I’m planning a little ahead of time on our first date if we make it that far and I need some options.
For some reference she’s from my school and for what I know the guys she dated was the “hood kids” although we live in the suburbs. I hit her up on Instagram last Friday and since then we been texting, but I was busy bc of work so we didn’t text that much .
I’m 17 and working (weekends but I have off next Saturday and Sunday) so money isn’t that much of a problem. Also this would be our first meet up
So 1st we have the movies. Who doesn’t like the movies? Especially if I could get close to her
2nd skyzone. If you don’t know what that is it’s a trampoline park and I get a discount for myself and whoever I bring bc I have friends there.
3rd there is a fair coming up where I live. That’s in 2 weeks and I don’t know if that’s the right time for a 1st date
4th some type of restaurant . So I’m way confident then how I was with my last dates so I think I could handle a date and pay for it (but lmk that’s probably better for a 2nd or 3rd date)
So that’s it that’s the options I have out here if you have any suggestions please leave below I’m all ears
If you were her, which would you pick? If you know what she would like then it’s a no-brainer. But if you are unsure on if she likes you as much as you like her, I’d go with the one that costs the cheapest and helps you get what you want out of the first date, whatever that may be. Whatever you choose, be sure to be yourself and show her a good time, and not tell her a good time, I’m definitely guilty of that one… good luck!
Oh god, NO MOVIES AND NO RESTAURANTS UNTIL YOU’RE SLEEPING TOGETHER.
It’s too weird, movies are fun when you’re already banging because you can fool around in the darkness, but if you’re not, it’s just awkward.
Go hiking, go to a park, walk your dog, get some ice cream, get outside. Going to a fair is an EXCELLENT idea. You both get to have fun together and there’s no awkward silences. Plus if you got some skill, you can impress her on the carnie games. Skyzone is also an EXCELLENT idea. Getting the heart pumping increases attractiveness. Active dates are 10000000 times better than boring seated dates.