Dating : Women and dating tribes. I think I am done going after the wrong ones.
Ok so I have been on the dating game since forever and I have come to the conclusion that there are certain tribes that women belong to(and men too). I live in Canada and from my experience the traditional Canadian women on average will not accept easily a guy that looks like he does not belong to his tribe(if you’re ethnic … you don’t match). Like for women attraction is mostly social and if you don’t belong to her tribe … you won’t get in easily. Of course if you’re hyper social and a master talker with a zillion friends, you probably will get in. But that’s not me and not many people most likely lol.
Like I’ve recently been matching with a lot of foreign women and it’s amazing how open they are. Like first they match with me then we talk and there is no bs like a banter and stuff. Of course we tease each others and have fun. But it feels so much more fluid. Also the women from my ethnicity seem to be more reserved and submissive. Like here in Canada the ladies seem to have a zillion other dudes looping around them on Instagram and I just feel like a number to them. They don’t seem to be looking for anything serious too. Of course not everyone is the same but I have been on dating apps for 10 years and I’m seeing a trend here.
All that to say, I think I’m done going after the traditional Canadian lady. I think I’m going to look at foreigners.
Came to the same conclusion about American women. Not that I haven’t met a few that were great to talk to and date, but I’ve had waaaaay more success with Thai, South Korean, and European women. Way more fun to talk to.