Dating : I have zero attraction to the women I date.
Does anyone else feel this way? I don’t think I have particularly high standards, I see attractive women all the time in the real world. I get plenty of dates just never with the girls im attracted to.
I feel that I have optimized everything I can about myself and I’ve been single for 3 years now.
I guess it’s settle or die alone.
Don’t settle. That’s not fair to her either. The women you date regardless of your attraction to them deserve someone who makes them feel attractive. Don’t hold them back.
If you have zero attraction… she is just not the one dude. Don’t overthink it because if it starts like this, and you keep going, you will be disgusted or regretful later, in addition of hurting her.
Settle or die alone is another problem. Which makes me think you don’t really search to settle.
That’s pretty normal nowadays. Most women are overweight or obese and most men aren’t attracted to obese women so on average most guys will never date a woman they are attracted to. To get dates with attractive women you need to be a male model, pay them, or get really lucky.
I been on dates with 5’2 300lbs girls. I’m 5’11 180lbs and like 15% body fat. Dating is a joke
Yup I have the same problem, it’s a very common problem a lot of people have.
For some reason tall thin women are attracted to me (by tall I mean taller than me and I’m 5’9) even though I’m attracted to short and curvy women.
I thought women were into guys as tall or taller than themselves but for whatever reason I seem to attract a fair amount of women taller than me and this was true for me even all the way back in high school. No idea what is up with this.