Dating : Is she interested in dating me?
matched with a girl about a month ago whom ive known of for a few years within our local rock climbing community. Have mutual friends but had never actually met each other. I am very blown away that we’ve connected!
We have caught up 2 times on our own and a few more times with mutual friends. Half of the catch ups we’ve had she has initiated with me.
Anyway, today we caught up for the second time to go climbing (just us two) after msging most the day. Its a good vibe, both pushing and encouraging each others climbing, and just general chatting with slight flirtation.
She is very busy and would have about 30 other people she could climb and do things with and that would be stoked to have time with her, but she has given me her saturday again and weve locked in a plan to catch up for the day (its currently Tuesday)
I feel this girl is way out of my league, though I am highly self critical.
Does this sound like she is atleast slightly interested in dating or something more than just friends?
Thanks!
Sure. Ask her if she wants to grab a bite after your next hike. If she’s interested in spending time with you « Outside » of the mutually enjoyable activity you two share, that’s a good sign.
That said, I’ve always been a « Just Ask » kind of person.