Dating : How long is good enough to be exclusive?
Hmm. I don’t know if this is too straightforward and something that I should know but I [28] have been seeing this person [32] and it’s been amazing so far. We talk consistently and have built a pretty good routine to get to know each other better.
It’s been two months.
Part of me is not worried about how things are progressing the other part is wondering if I’ll just end up being played. We have already shared that we’re interested in investing in this but he would like to take things slowly to “strengthen our friendship first and develop a relationship after.” I guess this makes sense?
I don’t really know what I’m asking but how can you tell if you’re not being strung along and if you’re actually building something real or that will last?
>I don’t really know what I’m asking but how can you tell if you’re not being strung along and if you’re actually building something real or that will last?
You never really know. You trust on it, based on your gut, past experience, and love.
People come up with all sorts of kooky games and tests but the truth is you can’t know this. You can only trust, and either end up happy or dissapointed.
Good luck.
Did you meet?