Dating : Rejection and it’s complications
Is there a really effective way to not take rejection (or straight up indifference/ghosting/cold shoulders) personally? (As if not thinking « maybe if I was Zac Efron type handsome or have x personality this wouldn’t be happening )
Flat out we don’t know exactly what goes through other people’s heads. 99% someone has an issue, it has to do with them, not you. It took a long time but I learned A) don’t take it personally because they don’t even know me so what kind of judgment could they possibly be making. And B) Do I want to interact with someone who would act like that? No, so no loss.