Dating : Guys bailing on dates
Hi all, female here.
So had some dates lined up this week. They would all be 2nd dates. For simplicity let’s call them A B and C.
So i like A the most and he’s the one we both text almost daily (usually he initiates but sometimes me) with a lot of good convo. I haven’t seen any of them in 2+ weeks and B and C I hardly hear from in any capacity.
They all bailed on me for dates this week. So I have a few questions. Should I give 1 free pass but express my displeasure?
And additionally, guy A bailed on plans caused he had the day off but then got asked to come into work when he knew we had plans and says « hope i get done in time ». And was fairly nonresponsive after that. Luckily for me I had something else going on as to not waste my night, but what do you make of that? He says it’s cause he « works a lot » but I think it’s just excuses.
I don’t think you should say anything. Just pull away a little bit, text A less, and if he does not intitiate conversation or plans, then I think you should drop him altogether.
I don’t like how guy A is playing games. Just cut him off. Did guy B and C let you know? Or were they no shows?
Don’t accept that kind of behavior from A. That should be the end of A.
3 guys you’re dating at the same time. Holy shit that’s bad.