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Dating : What to say right after a woman rejects going out with you?

Dating : What to say right after a woman rejects going out with you?


What should I say? I was thinking something like « Maybe i’ll go anyway, let me know if you change your mind. See you tomorrow ». Would this be ok? I may be overthinking it… I just want to make sure this isn’t awkward or communicates something weird to her.

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  1. I’m reading what you wrote as, « I’ hope you see I don’t need your validation and presence to enjoy myself but it would really make my day if you can come along…please. »

    Don’t be needy and just tell her she’ll be missing out on all the fun. Period. Move on, next

  2. it’s easier to kindly say. « oh ok » or « it’s alright, no worries but thanks for letting me know. » overall, don’t overthink it and act the way you want to be treated if you had to reject someone.

  3. Really depends on how she rejects you.

    if she violently rejects you: « gee guess I dodged a bullet »

    if she says sorry: « well that’s alright »

    if she says she has a bf: « sorry for bothering you »

    if she looks at her friends and laughs: walk away

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