Dating : Cheating ex (31M) wants a second chance
I (32F) ended a 8 month relationship with my ex a few months ago after many red flags and him admitting he had been on dates with other women while we were exclusive. He also told me he couldn’t make me happy and give me what I wanted – which was more physical and verbal affection outside of sex.
I feel like I had washed my hands of him and his toxicity and finally was in a place to start dating again. I’ve been on several dates with someone whom I think could be right in the long term, although we haven’t had the exclusive conversation yet.
My ex, with his impeccable timing, had told me recently that he missed me, wanted to reconnect, and dropped the other girl.
My brain is telling me TO RUN AWAY SIMBA, RUN AWAY AND NEVER RETURN. My messed up heart is suddenly telling me that maybe I wasn’t completely over him. We connected at a level I have yet to find again.
What should I do? I want to meet him but I know it’s a terrible idea. Do I meet him just to dump him again in a triumphant manner?Do I hear him out to see if he’s willing to work at giving me the things I said I needed from him?
What could this man possibly want from me??
Walk. Away. Now.
His idea of exclusive was different than yours. Who knows what else he may of done.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If they didn’t see your value In The first place then what makes you think he values you now?
Walk. Away.
Run. He already showed you he’s the kind of person who lies and sneaks around. You deserve so much better.
Don’t ruin your potential new relationship by letting your toxic ex back into your life in any way. He’s not worth it. Even if you just hear him out and talk with him, it’s going to mess with your head and set you back. Move forward, not backward.
Who cares what he wants? Run away!!!!!
Nope, Nope, Nope!!!!
All the advice in the world telling her to run away isn’t going to work because she’s already re-opened the door in her mind.
You should still run though.
So you found a guy that’s what you say you want, but you’re thinking about going back to a lying cheating toxic pos?
I thought you loved yourself.
don’t make your heart redo all healing it’s gone through. have compassion for yourself
Don’t go near him will only end up hurting you again. Find someone who will make you happy.