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Dating : Non-awkward or non-creepy way to ask out a cute cashier

Dating : Non-awkward or non-creepy way to ask out a cute cashier


I’ve been going to a local food court after work recently and have noticed a really cute girl working as a cashier on most weekdays. Is there any way I could ask her out without making it be awkward or creepy? The last thing I want is to make her uncomfortable.

Edit: I’m usually not the type to ask someone out in public, ever. But I’ve also never been so smitten by someone at first glance.

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  1. If you insist on hitting on this girl who is in the service industry and literally being paid to be nice to you, leave her your number when you are LEAVING and if she doesn’t hit you up, never bring it up again or ask her why she didn’t. You don’t know anything about her or her life except that you find her attractive. She may be in a relationship, she may not be attracted to people of your gender, keep all this in mind and don’t take it personally if she’s not interested no matter what the reason is.

  2. Asking someone out in their workplace is super creepy n a bit weird!! They’re at work in a professional environment,, let them do their job in peace pls :’))

  3. Well, maybe you could pass her a note? Sayin how she is cute and leave your number?

    Or you could ask her phone number from her coworkers (make friends with them if you haven’t yet).

    Anyways, just act on it. A part of being a generous person is showing others when you like them or find attractive.

    Asking her out in public could be awkward, indeed. Maybe, stalk her after work?

  4. There is unfortunately for you, no way to not make this uncomfortable for her. She’s at her job – just leave it be. I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective, I’d be, and have been when in this situation, really annoyed and put-off by someone who doesn’t understand that I’m here to do my job, and that is all.

    There will be other women that catch your eye, and in more appropriate settings (read: settings where it’s considered more socially acceptable to approach, and they aren’t under any forced social etiquette to reciprocate your sentiments).

  5. They potentially meet organically at any one of the aforementioned places I listed.

    Or sure – it’s trickier, but you hear about people meeting just out and about. It’s harder to know and read the situation though, if you were to approach someone, say, at the grocery store or at a café, b/c it’s not commonplace.

    Generally, you’ll have better luck in an environment where people are more likely to be open to being approached. Good luck 🙂

  6. Have a quick conversation that can leeway into a date. Ask her how her day is, got much planned for the weekend if no or yes just pass her your number and say if your available sometime and want to do something let me know.

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