Dating : So this girl likes me but…
I met this girl from a sport a few days ago. When I went home she started messaging me and we started to get to know each other through text. The thing is, she is usually the one that starts the convos and comes online immediately when I reply her. I can tell that she likes me obviously as she asks questions on sex and we get into really deep talks.
It has been 2 days now and I’m starting to feel like she is more interested in me than I’m interested in her. She is the first girl ever to show interest in me and I dont want to reject her. I’m starting to have a bit of feelings for her the more we talk but I feel it is very rush as it has only been 2 days. She talks more in text than in person to me. However she is very extroverted and outgoing so maybe she was just shy when she met me. She asks me a lot of questions like « are you single? » or « what would u want your gf to do in that situation if u had one? » so it’s pretty clear she is into me. Personally I dont want to lose her but yet I have no interest in dating anyone now whatsoever and I’m only half interested in her.
Any suggestions on what I should do as I’m very confused now. I’ve never dated or had a gf before so maybe that is why i dont want to lose her. She is the only shot I got to getting a girlfriend as I dont have to chase her at all.
>don’t want to date
>> only shot at a girlfriend
make up your mind. you want a girlfriend, date this girl. You don’t? tell her so she can move on with whatever she wants. playing the « idk what I want » in unfair to both of you.
one more thing just because she’s showing interest in you dies not seal the deal. relationships are born from mutual effort. the minute you forget that is when you lose ***ANY*** shot with anyone. includes freinds and family. don’t assume that because the other person is putting forth all the effort that you don’t need to fo anything.
The fear of missing out is the one of the worst reasons to be with someone. This spells out a recipe for disaster if you decided to be with her despite not feeling the same way. Do her a favour and let her down gently that you’re not interested in her.