Dating : If women can get sex anytime they want, then how is dating on an even playing field for both the men and women?
If a man sees a certain girl he wants to have sex with there more often than not chance he’s gonna get it if he’s an average guy. Even if she is average herself the chances she can’t get an average guy just like him make his job alot harder. So therefore being in demand the guy has to work alot harder to score.
So in that scenario it should be no secret that most men desire sex with women but can’t get it. But what about the woman? Well they most certainly can get it anytime if they truly wanted. Most guys would not refuse a night alone with a girl who wanted sex with him because the thought itself of that happening to an average guy happening on a regular basis is extremely rare….
So with those two points out of the way. How in the heck can people say that the dating game is even for both men and women when women have this advantage in their arsenal? To me it just screams to me like people not taking into account why the power is sex is so powerful that people try to downplay it.
If I can walk to party full of investors and have more than half of them ready to invest in my product before I presented it is pretty freaking powerful. Its an advantage that can’t be much disputed.
Now with the power of sex it brings much stuff to your favor.
Because sex isn’t the only goal of dating.
And no, women can’t get it any time we wanted – more so when you consider when talking about sex you’re evidently just talking about sticking a dick in someone, while most women want true sex…rather than being used as a fleshlight.
It’s not, women have it on easy mode most of the time.
It’s not even for anyone regardless of gender.
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Women want more than just sex though.
Its not, look at how the rate of sexlessness for men is skyrocketing
Women would rather sleep with top men
I’m not going to lie, this is pretty wild, my dude.
How often do people like this actually read and listen to what other people are saying and try to put themselves in their shoes?
> But what about the woman? Well they most certainly can get it anytime if they truly wanted.
Look, I’m a guy and even I know this is a load of self-pitying horseshit. They *most certainly* can’t just up and do that.
As a guy you kind of take it for granted that most women have good social skills.
On the other hand, finding guys that aren’t angry, rude, can’t smile and hold a conversation, hygeine issues, hung up on a grab bag of mental traps, defensive, constant downers, entitled « nice-guys », or outright sociopath-type scary……this isn’t as easy as you think it is.
Another thing is a lot of guys who have unreasonable expectations of women that they would never themselves be willing to live up to similar standards.
Ask yourself, after writing this, would you want to date a woman who said a bunch of untrue things about men? Would *you* date you?
Even if you’re just in it for sex, you wouldn’t want to be with someone who was unpleasant to be around, and had a constant sketchy, irritated vibe, would you?
I’m guessing you’ve complained before at some point about « hot girls who are total bitches. »
What about someone who was always pissed that you weren’t meeting their high expectations? Would you want to sleep with such a person. Because I don’t think you’d enjoy that much.
Ask yourself this.
So as women you don’t just deal with men who are physically not that attractive, but there’s this huge swathe of guys that have trashy personalities and aren’t willing to improve.
If women actually gave a shit about how easy it is to hook up, maybe this would be a thing. But most women really don’t. At all. In the slightest.
I’m fully aware of how easy it is to get a guy naked, and that it would require little to no effort on my part. I see this as no accomplishment whatsoever.
Most women want connection. Love. Romance. They want to meet a decent guy who will treat them well. And, for most, that is nowhere near as easy as getting laid.
So, sure. Women might hold the cards when it comes to getting laid. But men seem to hold the cards when it comes to commitment. Nobody said it was an even playing field.
Women do hold power when it comes to offering sex.
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But men own all the cards when it comes to deciding on commitment and the relationship.
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(TYPICALLY), just as much as a guy wants to get laid, a woman seeks that commitment and marriage.
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For the women who hold out sex – eventually the guy gets fed up and moves on to someone more understanding – this is why you find so many threads asking « Why did he ghost me? » etc
Men and the corporations mostly run by men make the money from porn. Something like 2 to 3 out of every 5 women is the survivor of sexual assault. If women had power over the industry these realities would be different
Men can have sex anytime they want also