Dating : How to find the energy/confidence to get out there.
I am 19 years old (M) and i have lived my entire life without any physically intimate contact with girls. And sadly some part of my brain tells me that I am totally fine this way, I have always been capable of being independent and even isolated. But what can be a positive in some circumstances can be a negative in others. So my brains has seemingly recognized that its not worth the energy to try and date anyone. I think a fix to this would be confidence because that would make the energy req. go down and thus i may get out there and try despite my brains understanding that i don’t need an SO. I am writing this mainly just thinking to myself but if others are in the same boat it would be nice to hear your opinions as well.
> How to find the energy/confidence to get out there.
Step 1. Stop masturbating to internet porn.
Hey! I’m in the same boat! It’s almost as if I have to FORCE myself to try and meet women. Honestly, I’m pretty happy as a single person, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not dating around.
Life happens outside your comfort zone.
The way I see it, just because you could technically be celibate and single for the rest of your life doesn’t mean you should. You’d be missing out on a lot of fun shit.
You only go around once so why wouldn’t you try everything you can, while you can?