Dating : Is it to early to ask her out?
This past weekend I went to a huge camping trip that my friend invited me too. (50+ people were there). I had an amazing time meeting new people and making friends.
There were this cute girl I met and was talking to her a bit. I never really got the chance to talk one on one for long, but I liked talking to her. She was friendly and I was making her laugh, but I couldn’t gauge if she was being flirty. At some point she asked if anyone wanted to swim but no one really wanted including me because it was cold out still. Later the sun came out and I asked her if wanted to swim and she agreed and we set a time around 1pm.
Unfortunately both of us didn’t know we had to leave for 2pm so we couldn’t go swim as her ride was leaving early at 1:30. I would have been just us alone so I would have loved to get to know her better, chat and then ask her out. That was my plan.
This group of friends I met are from a church young adults group and we meet up every thursday, and I’m hoping she will be there. Im kinda newish to this group and this camping trip was a great opportunity to meet everyone.
Now my question is should I just shoot my shot with her? She doesn’t really know me, but I want to know if its too early to ask, and want your opinions. Im 26m btw.
Thanks!
Honestly just go for it. You obviously are interested since you’re asking on here, so what do you have to lose? Like you said, it’s a big group so if things go badly and it’s awkward between you two then you have many other people to surround yourself with and can avoid her if necessary. Just try building off of things you know you both have in common (ie: talk about camp to begin with), and go from there. Good luck!
Yup, just go for it. 🙂 Very little to lose! Good luck!