Dating : Just nice or into me
So there is a really cute girl that works next door at this little coffee shop/ bakery that tends to act differently around me vs other customers (at least from what I’ve observed) for example today she was conversing with a customer, when I got to the counter she took a very soft tone when talking to me. I also think I’ve caught her checking me out when I’m bringing in product to my work, but haven’t been able to confirm. Am I just being a moron for thinking she may be attracted to me?
Sorry in advance if this seems super obvious, I haven’t been in the dating scene for almost a decade and have no idea what’s up or down anymore. Thanks anyone and everyone who provide input 🙂
Take the initiative and ask her to dinner. Sounds like there may be a connection
I’d say 50/50 – yes, a lot of people try to be nice for tips or whatever, and it can be really uncomfortable to be asked out by a customer at work, however…
I’ve had it work, same exact situation. I went to the coffee shop next door almost every day and one day I finally decided I’d just go for it an ask her out – and she said yes, and we went out a few times.
worst case she says no/shuts you down kindly and you let it go
Hhhmmm I would be careful. I’ll try to stay friendly for now. Wait a few weeks and determine the situation then.