Dating : Do men in their late 20/early 30s get nervous to ask a woman out? Plus reaching out to my hook up?
More background on why I’m asking this below, but my main questions are:
Do men (late 20s/early 30s) get nervous to text or officially ask a woman out? Whether it be on a date or casual drinks, etc.?
One night stands, when the morning after is not awkward at all and he asks for your number after, texts you so you have his, and then adds you on Instagram, is this a good sign?
Background:
As you can guess, I had a (yes, inspired by alcohol) “one night stand” and I ended up really connecting with the guy the next morning. We talked in bed for a while (stupid jokes were made, there was a lot of laughing and learning a little bit more about each other’s interests and what not). He asked for my number before he left, texted me so I had his and then added me on Instagram and Snapchat after he left.
I ended up texting him the next day with a joke from the day before, and he responded back within a half hour. The convo didn’t go back and forth much but on Instagram he replied to a story of mine a few days ago (I was at a restaurant) and I said it was my favorite and he said that he’d “be up for that sometime!”
It’s only been a little over a week since I first met this guy, but I’m wondering if these are all “good” signs, and if I should initiate seeing him again or if he’s just taking his time and I should wait for him to ask? Am I being over eager as it’s only been a week?
If you’ve read this far, thanks! I appreciate any input/advice on the above questions! 😀
Yeah those are good signs, so far. Men can be nervous asking women out at any age, it can be very intimidating. Good job though! A good mental connection is a great sign. The fact he wants to hang out sober when you met drunk is quite promising.
Im early 20s and Im terrified of asking women out. Like im a sociable guy but I just dont want to be a bother and I get like really anxious about it. I wish they would ask me out tho. That would be so nice. Id probably cry tbh.
>Do men (late 20s/early 30s) get nervous to text or officially ask a woman out?
no, been through it so many times. there’s zero hesitation on my part
>One night stands, when the morning
she doesn’t stay the night and i don’t stay overnight. i don’t know how some ppl can sleep during one nightstands