Dating : What’s the issue?
Hello folks, I am here for some dating tips because, apparently, I am not too good at it. In order to make it more clear, here are some major facts about me:
– 20 years old male
– average-looking face with with a fairly athletic silhouette
– student
– quite intelligent (not that I’m boasting about it, just presenting things how they are).
Well, the case is simple – my dating ability seems to be impaired. Starting from the very beginning, I’ve never been in a relationship with a girl. I’ve had some physical interactions with girls throughout my life, however, the vast majority (if not all) of them took place after alcohol use. When I’m sober, I am capable of talking with women etc., I am not a socially awkward person in general. Nevertheless, I can’t draw a girl’s attention to the extent which would lead to us dating. I mean, I’ve asked several girls out in my life and almost none of the attempts were successful (I’ve been to 2-3 dates until now) which, I can’t lie, didn’t help my confidence. I am a fairly intelligent guy (medicine student) and my looks are not bad at all (mediocre face combined with a fit body). I work out regularly and take a decent care of the way I dress and yet I can’t get into any sort of closer relationship. Maybe it’s about my character or I simply aim too high in terms of the girls’ looks. I don’t know, what do you guys think?
Have you considered having a sense of humour?
Start the day with a couple of drinks and then continue drinking throughout the day.
It’s hard to say just based on your description. There could be a number of factors, or it could just be bad luck or poor timing. I’m no Zac Effron but I think I’m probably a 7/10 on a good day and I can’t seem to pull the ladies the way I’d like to either. I’m 6 ft with an athletic build, and I’d like to think I’m intelligent as well. Sometimes it’s just a matter of putting yourself out there enough times until you finally meet that one girl. You’re young, as well. You have a ton of time to keep on looking. You’ll find her.
Girls standards are becoming too high. It’s not like the old days, my friend.
What do you do when you’re bad at something? You research it. Read up more on game and practice practice practice. Apply them to your daily life slowly and surely you’ll see results. You’ll learn a lot of surprising things about yourself along the way, I can tell you that.
First things first, how many girls did you met this last year ( in dates and « almost » dates) ?