Dating : How to initiate a FWB friendship with a girl?
I have a friend of mine who has shown a strong sexual attraction in the past towards me that I didn’t capitalize on. She has mentioned to my best friend that she is strongly considering looking for a fuck buddy. This friend doesn’t really hang out as often as she used to, as she is super busy with work and her kiddos. I am usually very blunt and say whats on my mind. Should I just text her, and let her know I would be interested to be a FWB or wait until we see each other and start the flirting, etc? I have never had a FWB, since all the women I have slept with have either been through dating or a relationship. What say you?
Do it in person.
Girls always like it when it’s their idea of in control of what they do next. Try to spin it where she’ll think it’s her idea. Like next time you catch her flirting be like “I can’t help but notice some sexual tension between us. And word on the street is you’re looking for a fuck buddy”. Where she will hopefully ask, “do you have anyone in mind.” And then describe a friend but really describe yourself.
Good luck!
It kind of just happens. There is really nothing in common except for the strong sexual attraction. Both parties recognize this. There shouldn’t be a need to « define » it.
However, one person usually starts to develop feelings as time goes on.
one time when MySpace was still a thing. I told this dorm mate I wanted to fuck her friend… I messaged the friend on MySpace asking if she heard what i said she said no (she did but she wanted to hear it from me)……
So I told her and we hooked up that night and kept it going for 4 years. we’re still friends and all no benefits now a days…
if she’s attracted to you it doesn’t matter how u do it…
honesty and respect…