Dating : I’m note sure about my feelings towards my girlfriend. Is there something wrong with me?
So a month ago I wrote this post about my ex and everything. You can read about it [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c92w5n/should_i18m_comeback_to_my_ex_gf18f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app)
This is basically a continuation. So I went in and came back to my ex from last post. At the beginning everything was alright but after 2 weeks I feel there is something weird. Of course she is still this same best person as she was as the beginning. I have a lot of fun when I’m with where and time just flows with her. The problem is that I just don’t feel this same towards her?
Like, when we are kissing I feel just… a kiss. It’s not something magical, just touching our lips. She is not as attractive for me as she was before we broke up in January.
I remember that few months ago I was often asking her why she didn’t want to grab my hand or kiss when we were with our friends. She always respond that she is just shy. Right now I’m the one who is feeling weird. Like, I’m not comfortable with holding hand or kissing when we are with our friends. It’s not a problem when we are alone at home.
Is there something wrong with me or with my feelings. Has it just burn out? Or maybe that’s normal for more mature relationships.
> Is there something wrong with me
Probably
Bit early to say, but I wouldn’t worry too much right now. See where you’re at in a month and go from there. In my experience time helped me to understand what I was feeling and why. If you still aren’t feeling the love, I may also suggest bringing it up with her if you haven’t already, as hard as it may be.