Dating : The breakup and the aftermath are always a rollercoaster
More of a vent I guess.
A girl of my dreams ended our relationship a few days ago. I was so hurt, distraught and confused the first two days. We ended up having a conversation that really mended things, provided clarity, and ended with a mutual understanding. Of course I’m still a little sad, but I know I will miss her more than anything. She brought a lot of joy into my life. I fortunately still get to see her because of work and she says she still wants to hangout casually which will be nice.
I think we’ve all been through breakups that ended terribly, some that ended well, mutual breakups, etc. sometimes we come out feeling relieved, stressed, upset, sad, angry or some other range of emotions. It sucks to end a relationship but sometimes it’s for the better. You’ll miss them of course, they become a huge part of your life. But at the end of the day each one should teach you more about yourself, what you will and won’t tolerate, communication and compromise. Sometimes the relationship wasn’t meant to be, at that time. For myself, I believe that this was this relationship. Maybe in the near future or a few years from now it’ll be rekindled but only time can tell. Do your best to stay positive and don’t beat yourself up over “why, what if, can we, but, how about, give me”.
I experienced a break up where I didn’t realize what I had until I lost it.. I think I was more miserable than she was about it.. took me a few months to get over her.. we lost communication for 4 yrs.. then one day not so long ago while on my way to get some milk we see each other.. long story short we are giving it a 2nd chance and im never skipping a beat, I make sure to tell her how I feel about her.. I just hope I don’t do it excessively because that can be weird, I think. I told her I was in love with her too so idk im just going along for the ride right now and hope I don’t do anything to mess it up
Yep. My ex-girlfriend hates me with everything in her soul. She was the literal perfect girl for me, but my mental health and my bad clinginess? (I love giving to people, don’t know if that’s clingy) caused her to fall out of love. Also, the fact that she got over the honeymoon phase with me. I was madly. Madly in love with this girl. So, when she dumped me, I was a tornado of like 30 different emotions. So in short, I went from begging her, apologizing, frustration, everything you shouldn’t do to your ex. Things were made worse, when she believed rumors about me. Really nasty shit. Which, were not true. The last nail in the coffin was the worse. In short, we got into a really really bad argument 5 weeks after breaking up. In short, she had everyone around her believing that I’m an abusive monster or something. Breakups suck man lol.