Dating : 2 types of people after breakups
Also I’ve been reading quite a lot about this thing. In every relationship breakup one person gets into another relationship and another and another and continues on. Never to fix themselves. Never caring about what happens. Just posting pictures on social media seeming happy with each guy but never showing a slight time of hurt or moving on. Just one relationship after another. Then suddenly get into a relationship after 6 relationships after the first breakup and get married off after knowing the person for 4 months. The person ends up in a toxic relationship where they never feel happy but constantly post social media comments about how happy they are but really they are breaking down. They realised how everything is their fault and how bad it got for them. Karma has slapped them and it might be months or years but it will come around and slap them so hard.
Then there is a person who spent time grieving. Who spent their days crying and dreading for weeks. But they get into a relationship after fixing themselves up and fully moving on. They heal and feel so much better. They start loving themselves again and enjoy their ti.e until someone beyond the first person they were with comes into their lives and the relationship really hits off. Every single thing the past relationship didn’t have this one had. It had love and self care. It had communication and enjoyment. It had everything that a perfect relationship needed. Then they get married and they are even a step closer and start a family. Enjoying a successful life where no matter what they do their partner is by their side 24/7 through thick and thin walls.
There’s nothing true about this, it’s heavily generalized and borderline-bitter
Far more than two types of people after breakups. But, uh, you seem to have identified a couple of the many types, so, good job I guess, lol
I needed to hear this.
I’m the second type, it’s been 3 months since I broke up with ex for toxic reasons. During that time, I’ve taken better care for myself,lost 20 pounds and extremely close to getting below 200 pounds, used my spare time at barns and noble, read about 5 books, hiked up mountains, pretty muched enjoyed my own company
My ex on the other hand had started dating her friend two weeks after I broke up with her. Constantly updating her social media account about how in love she is with her new BF. It hurt to know that she moved on so easily, felt like I meant nothing to her regardless of how many times I tried to fix our previous relationship. In the end I had to let her go, blocked her on every form possible. I even had to delete my Instagram account because I found myself wanting to check up on her. I cant say for sure that I’m finally happy with myself but I can definitely say that things have gotten easier.