Dating : (22F) How do you girls keep all your dates engaged?
My personal settings is someone who is always busy working so I can jump off the chat anytime I want. I stopped meeting my dates because there were a lot of restrictions going on in my area thanks to crazy covid cases. The biggest joy in dating to me is the physical meetings and socializing part so I find there’s no point engaging with them if the restrictions keep going on for months.
Is it possible to keep them for a few months without talking to them? I really feel like it’s quite pointless to talk to people if we couldn’t meet. I’m prepping for my exam currently but I told (lied) them I’m a project manager busy with private investments.
So the best excuse I could think of is telling them I’m stressed up focusing on my new project and will not be responsive until my project charter being approved etc. Or is there any other ways to keep them engaged without having to reply them every week? Meaningless texting drains my energy.
Side note: they are just my casual dates, not my boyfriends, so no serious commitments.
Why are you asking for advice about how to do something that you just admitted you realized was pointless multiple times in a row?
If you see that it is pointless, you don’t need advice how to do it better. Just don’t do it at all then…