Dating : 23M need help with knowing analyzing situation
Hello, i 23M need advice regarding a girl i am interested in (23F). i am super inexperianced and not very good at conversation but i managed to make friends with her when we were going to the same classes. I wasnt interested in her the first year we knew each other, we talked, went out drinking a couple of Times but only as friends. I text her very rerely but when i do we always have nice conversations i think. When we go out either alone or with a mutual friend we always have a good time. I think she is also super shy and inexperianced but i dont know that for sure.
Anyway this year we started hanging out a lot more after i finished collage and we were going out every other day. I started to think i like her a lot but i still dont know if i do or if i am Just that desperate and horny ??(she is the only women i have ever been close with 🙁
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But this year she went to study abroad for 6 months and i bearly heard from her. I only text her once a month because i dont want to seem desperate, and she never is the first one to text me.
She is also foraign and we only have a couple things in common.she is coming back this month and i realy want to stop being a loser and get together with her close again and Ask her if she wants something with me. My question is should i? Do i even have a chance or is it painfully obvious that she Just wants to be friends and that i am desperate for a gf? Am i even atracted to her or Just desperate? Anyone who can relate? Can a relationship like this even work with 0 experiance?
If i were u, i wouldnt want to mess up this friendship. My rule of thumb is, if i met a girl and we dont do anything in 2 months. Best to put her in the FZ and move on. This is a good technique to motivate myself to get her and close the deal or allow myself to move on.