Dating : A 35 year old woman who has never dated doesn’t know what she wants and is emotionally unstable. Total red flag.
I am a 35 year old woman who has never been on a date or kissed another person, and all I’m hearing is that I should just give up now because nobody will ever give me a chance.
Clearly I can’t know what I want, I will be an emotional mess and my life will be torn apart by dating (according to the charming words of some guy here).
So, is it true? Because I’m 35 and inexperienced I should just forget everything and give up now?
Fuck no… keep trying.. theres someone out there for everyone!! That guy who told you that was garbaaaaaaage
DO YOU! Do you WANT to give up? No? Then don’t! Are your loving family and friends telling you to give up? I have a feeling they’re not, but if they are, time for a heart to heart. You seem to want to find someone, and while it might be harder at this point, I truly believe there’s an inexperienced man in his thirties out there who would be thrilled to know you exist.
I think you know the answer to this. Just don’t get jaded, inexperience is fine if you communicate, but jaded people are hard to interact with.
You don’t need to give up if you don’t want. People are telling you this because they know other people in similar situations that never got successful. Being realistic it’s not going to be ‘easy’. Other people have literal decades worth of experience on you and know what they want. There are going to be guys who are going to see your lack of experience as a negative. You need to frame things in a positive, flattering light. What have you been doing all this time? Is there a particular reason you are in this situation?
You seem so jaded. That alone is gonna make it very hard for you to connect with potential dates. You never should give up but putting out the energy of all men suck is gonna effect how you interact with them and make you put up walls. You might get a guy who tries to get through those walls only to find that your just not compatible. You need to fix your attitude and perspective on dating. Think what do I bring to the table before you just start labeling all guys as assholes. There’s a reason your 35 and never dated, try to work on those reasons. Just looking through the comments you have had bad relationships with your family and with friends and snap at anyone giving you actual advice. It’s never too late to date but it’s never too late to improve yourself as well.
Nope! Don’t give up. I hear people in their 40s have barely found the love of their life. You’re still young. Go get em girl!
Nah you’ll probably find someone, well there’s a chance you won’t some people do and some don’t but I wouldn’t get caught up on it too much, things always happen when you least expect it.
Nonsense. Get off of reddit, get out there and start learning.
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Yes, it’s all true.