Dating : Am I dealing with a very experienced/psycho player???
Back story: we met on bumble and only met him this past Monday. We went for drinks and we hooked up. Was fun
So some actions he does:
we’ve only known each other a weekish and the night we met he’d call me babe. He calls me babe frequently now.
Says I’m fun and he says he can’t wait to see me again, but does not initiate when to hang
Calls me cute
Texts me short convos and doesn’t text me till the next day and disregards the convo before
He has a huge Snapchat score like 185,000
Then last night he texts me “ily” when he got drunk yesterday. I said “wrong person” and he says “k” but I go “r u playing games” then he goes “visit me” – I take this convo as him wanting to hookup cuz it was almost 2 am
The thing is I’m thinking he’s a psycho player because who tf tells someone babe and “ily” to someone they just met. For me, that’s very intimate and it confuses me cuz I rlly like him and it hurts me if he’s playing games like that. I don’t get his MO. To me idk if I’m realllly overthinking things or he’s just a very psychological player. What are your thoughts??