Dating : Am I doing something wrong?
Most people on here seem to think women don’t get rejected at all, or that being a woman means you’re automatically guaranteed to have at least a little bit of success. Personally this has not been true for me at all. Even though I initiate every time, I have yet to score a single date. I’m honestly starting to feel like less of a woman because people just aren’t attracted to me. Are people just exaggerating about how easy women supposedly have it, or is there something wrong with me?
Are you being told no, or just not being asked out? Men will generally be afraid to ask women out who have approached them first. In my case, I will assume that your initiative is just friendliness, because I’ve assumed the opposite before and it has bit hard, unless you actually suggest a date yourself. I’m sure I’ll still get told that I’m weird and this doesn’t apply to most men.
Hun don’t feel bad or like less of a woman because of a bunch of whiny men on Reddit. They don’t actually know what it’s like to be a woman. They just make assumptions because women are more likely to get matches on dating apps. Women get rejected all the time especially if they’re looking for something serious and not just a hook up. There’s nothing to be a shamed of. Those guys also don’t consider that a lot of those matches are guys who’d match with anyone and or guys looking just for hook ups. It might be healthy for you to take a break from trying for a little while and just work on yourself to build back up your self esteem. Then when you go back to trying you’re new confidence might help out your chances.
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Work on urself. u didn’t tell how much effort u take on feeling great about urself