Dating : Am I in the wrong for hooking up with other girls after being dumped?
I wanted an emotional connection before sex, I wanted trust. The only way this girl could “trust” me was apparently by locking me into a marriage and having me convert to Christianity.
I felt a very strong emotional connection and attraction to her and she felt the same, but we no matter how much I tried to communicate, it was always her way or the highway.
After she dumped me (we were never really together so hardly a dumping but it still hurt) I figured everything I knew in love was wrong, so I started seeing other people and hooking up without that emotional connection or trust. I didn’t like it that much. One of the 2 girls I hooked up with was only because I knew girls liked my body and I was very lonely. So I traded sex for companionship.
I knew I would be seeing this Christian girl again and I literally just didn’t know what to do or what to say. We had been talking again for a couple weeks before I finally told her I saw other people. She thinks I’m a shitty person and a liar now.
She’s the shitty person and you dodged a bullet when she dumped you. Move on my dude.
Nobody really cares who you sleep with dude. You’re single, you can do whatever tf u want. No need to justify.
Of course not! Time waits for no one you don’t have to either!
If she dumped you, then exclusivity is over. She doesn’t own you. I’d move on, you’ll find plenty of women who are much better matches for you.
This girl sounds toxic as hell and nothing you’ve done here is morally wrong or anything– though I would advise that from now on the moment anyone requires you to change things like faith, values, personality, etc. in order to date them, treat it as an immediate dealbreaker.