Dating : Am I too intimidating?
So I am a firearms instructor and I drive a 1967 Chevy Impala that I’ve had a hand in restoring. I write a monthly column for a car magazine as well. I am getting very few likes/responses on my dating apps. Am I projecting a butchy vibe? My pictures are of my in dresses and with makeup. I don’t have short hair. Should I take these things off my profile?
Your profile should show who you are.
You do sound really intimidating, but impressive, and you wouldn’t want to waste your time with someone who didn’t appreciate those things about you. I say keep your profile as is.
Could be, I haven’t seen your bio before. I seen girls that are very intimidating but otherwise very pretty that I would never message and it’s just because their bio was super hostile sounding or gave off a vibe that they are not the type of person that would be emotionally supportive. Maybe yours is like that? idk.
What kind of guy are you looking for? If you’d want some tough rugged macho guy then yeah you’d intimidate any guy that doesn’t fit that build.
It just means the best guys aren’t on Dating Apps. I have one on my phone and I barely ever use it,…just seems a waste of time.
Get off the dating apps.
Meet guys in your social life. If you have no social life than get one. Try [Meetup.com](https://Meetup.com) and see if there are meetup groups in your area that look interesting.
Now about the butchy thing,…well, yea, maybe. It isn’t just appearance, it is also in the way you talk, act, attitudes, etc. But they won’t know about that on a dating app. However, it is very important to maintain proper sexual polarity. A relationship cannot be built on two masulines or two feminines. It has to be one feminine and one masculine. Masculine is attracted to feminine and vice-versa. There is a decent book out there written to men called « How to be a 3% Man » that is very good at explaining this stuff. Although it is written to men, you can still learn from it where you should fit into the equation.
BTW – if that 67 is the 2-door hard top (sloped rear glass with triangle rear side glass), a 396 rather than the 327,…and there is a AR-15 or two in the safe,…you might be my chick.
I’ve gone to a few meetups but it seemed a bit colicky – I should try again.
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