Dating : Anyone else not get matches on tinder?
Any other attractive guys not get a lot of matches?
I’m an attractive male (I’d rate myself an honest 7-7.5 out of 10) athletic / in shape, nice smile, good career and I have a hard time getting matches on tinder. I’m matching with unattractive chicks and then the few attractive ones I do get don’t message back and the rare occurrence they do message back it’s almost impossible to keep them interested because I’m sure their inbox is flooded. I’ve had success with attractive women that I met in person, as a matter of fact all 3 of my ex’s are beautiful, but on tinder Its a different story. It seems as if on tinder chicks can reach way out of their league. I’ve even tried messaging girls that I really have no interest in and get no response. Girls who are 4’s and 5’s can match with guys who are 9’s and 10’s. I’ve witnessed it firsthand. I knew a chick who was a solid 4 and maybe a 5 in her filtered photos and she got hundreds of matches her first day. Anyone else have this issue? It seems as if 5% of men get 100% of the matches and then any guy outside of that 5% gets little to none. What are your experiences?
Basic rule of tinder: everyone is reaching and nobody is settling.
Maybe cose you’re speaking of people in numbers chief , but bottom line yea way too many guys than girls. Like e saying goes Tinder is where average girls become pretty and average guys become ugly. The good-looking ones stay winning
Im a girl and from my understanding, the women on tinder are probably too busy trying to hook up. Ngl, im the opposite of you. Im an attractive person, have a lot of matches, but the guys wont seem to respond to me? If they will respond, they tend to be sexually attracted and wants fwb (i dont like hookups) but the others who wont respond, I guess i intimidate them? I really dont know. But keep on swiping, maybe you’ll find an attractive person for you who likes you too
How do you know you’re attractive if youre not getting matches? Attractiveness is measured by the number of matches you get. That’s basically the most reliable and data driven method of measuring a straight man’s attractiveness.
It doesn’t work so well for women/gay men since they get flooded with likes which is not particularly informative.
What’s your height / ethnicity / fitness level?
Yup, online dating is skewed extremely heavily against men. I’ve had way more success on bumble for whatever reason
I get them, but they aren’t actually what they pretend to be or I don’t find them attractive or they don’t find me attractive.
Just stop using Tinder. I got way more luck on OkCupid.
I got a conspiracy theory that they only show men the absolute minimum if they don’t pay so maybe once a month you are shown to 10 girls.