Dating : Are humans polygamic by nature?

Dating : Are humans polygamic by nature?

Have you ever seen a woman so desperate to have sex? Right-swiping everything on tinder, even the ugliest men, even 40 years older homeless, even cat memes?

Well, I have. Yet I doubt that many of them are virgins in the age of 21. The only way for a woman to be a virgin, is either her own choice, or some serious disability, such as wheelchair or schizophrenia. A woman, despite of how she looks, of what personality she has, of how negative or positive she is – there will always be someone that doesn’t rejects her. Even if she does nothing but plays fortnite all the time – if she offers someone to come to her house and have sex, she will always find someone interested.

As for men – there are entire subcultures of losers. Those that get rejected by all women. Those that spend entire life in video games. Those that work 16 hours a day in the sewers, and just don’t see many women in their life. Those that keep sending dick pics on instagram – don’t think they often have sex.

Now the problem. The male-to-female ratio is very close to 1. That means, if we count non-losers only, it will be far below 1. Let’s say it is 0.8.

Plus, statistically, there are much more homosexual men, than women. That makes it 0.7.

So, let’s say there are 100 women for 70 men. If everyone from that engaged in a monogamous heterosexual, there would be 30 female losers left. So, in order to fill in all the gaps, a man needs to have an average of 1.43 women at a time.

Now, how things work, is that there is very high demand for very attractive men, and very low demand for barely attractive. Men just want sex, while women want a very handsome man, and are really disgusted by the uglier men, not attracted because of opposite gender.

That is, out of that 70 men, 65 would end up with one woman, 4 men would end up with 5 women each, and one man would end up with 15 women. Now, you can say that only those 5 men are polygamic. But, in reality, if they were not, then it would be women who’d suffer – there would be not enough attractive men, and some would be left to the gaming nerds. So, if not for that, women would be sending vagina pics to men that block them on sight. This makes men’s polygamy a strong pillar of human society.

Does it mean that polygamy is a part of human nature? That the ultimate goal of every man is to have as many women as possible, and the ultimate goal of every woman is to make as handsome man as possible, even for the cost of sharing him. If she doesn’t mind sharing a man, then she is polygamic too, right?