Dating : At 28, I finally asked a girl for her number.
So I posted here about a month ago for advice on if I should ask a receptionist for her number. I see her about once a week and recently found out I wouldn’t be going to that stop for a while so I figured I had to finally make a move.
Last week I went in and chatted a bit like usual and as I’m about to leave with every ounce of courage I asked for her number. She said sorry but that she couldn’t because she had a boyfriend but that I was a really nice guy and so on. I’m not going to lie kind of stung at first but man I actually felt like a weight had been lifted off my chest. Never in a thousand years did I think I could pull this off without being intoxicated or without the help of someone else. The best part was that it’s not as bad as you think. In most cases the worst that can happen is that she says no and that’s exactly what happened. She didn’t yell at me, call me a creep, laugh, etc. So to all those guys and gals wondering if they should go for it take it from me a guy with 0 experience, do it! I’m so glad I dont have to go another week or month(s) wondering what if.
Good for you!
You don’t know until you take a chance.
It’s not an easy thing to do, you’re right in feeling proud!
Good for you man. This is how it should be. Just go for it.
she didn’t call you a creep *to your face.
Good for you. I would recommend next time to start a conversation before asking for her number, in the conversation u can figure out whether if she is single and if your her type of guy she is looking to meet. But ur 28 and this is your first time asking a girl for her number?