Dating : belittling?
I’m 24 and he is 25, he is always a joker, so sometimes when we hang out I’m usually the cook because I cook pretty good and most of the times I end up also cleaning the dishes, because either he is high and being stupid or he is being lazy and he only does half of it. At his work place when we Face time and he shows me off at his coworkers I feel that he belittles me with these jokes that he throws… saying e.g. « Woman! (loudly in a funny way), cook for me when I get home! hopefully its done within the three hours I get home » and then he laughs or his coworkers as well… I feel sad after that and I don’t tell him cause then maybe I’m overreacting or I’m overemotional and maybe he is just joking around. But I feel that it is a way of belittling me and just not appreciative about it. is he being mean in a joking a way or am I being a drama queen?…
P.S. We are not BF and GF, we are just seeing each other and hanging out as if we were, but without the label.
He’s a douche. The longer you wait to cut it off the more time you’ve wasted. I’m a joker myself, but not a lazy piece like that. Odds are (i’m talking 99.9% odds) he’ll never appreciate squat from you. Please don’t waste your time. There are some decent guys out there you just gotta be patient. And be prudent if you want someone worth having. I know « prude » has a negative connotation, but I’d never date a girl that isn’t one.
Sort of…ask that he keep your relationship private.
Communication is so dang important talking about these issues does not make you a drama queen. I don’t know your BF personally, but I know that I personally like when my GF is upfront with me (don’t have one right now). If his actions bother you he needs to know, but don’t be mean about it. if he is a nice, considerate, and mature enough guy he will listen to you and take it seriously. If you want to know his intent ask him. There are ways to talk about these things in a civil manner. Good luck!