Dating : Boy trouble
So there’s this guy that I really like, and we used to hang out a lot but we took it to the next level and everything was fine as normal.
But then I asked him about that night and what was going to happen now and he told me that he doesn’t like getting into relationships and wasn’t interested like that…
I told him I was fine with that and that it wasn’t a problem but nothing will happen between us again
But the thing is he is literally always messaging me, always texting me just having general conversation about absolutely anything that he can think of and I never text first, it’s always him
So what do I do from here. I’ve told him that’s nothings gunna happen cause I’m looking for a relationship and if he isn’t interested then why is he still texting non stop?
Maybe he’s bored, or seeking validation. My suggestion is just to ignore him if you need to move on. He already told you he’s not interested in pursuing anything serious with you so take him at his words. Don’t fall for mixed signals, it’s going to drive you insane and make you jaded. You probably won’t take my advice since you said you really like this guy. But no matter how much you like him, it’s not going to make him like you back. So heed my advice now and regards all mixed signals as nos. It will save you a lot of heartaches and sanity.