Dating : Broken heart
I feel numb from a broken heart and I just wonder how does this pain ever end or go away
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I feel numb from a broken heart and I just wonder how does this pain ever end or go away
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time heals all.
I’m so sorry. It will get better. I promise. Maybe tomorrow, one small thing will seem easier. One thing will seem funnier. One thing will trigger some thought you know to be of your own thinking, and you’ll start to recollect who you are.
The numbness is the worst. Try to have some preference for anything, tomorrow. Try to decide what you want to eat and how you want to spend one hour free, not moping. Do any other thing. Not because you want to, but because it’s good discipline and it’s how you move on. Go do something you hate for twenty minutes. Recollect your sense of humour and purpose.
What comics/movies/food/tv/books/music do you like? Seek things out that occurred before the break, that are just you. Go to the gym or for a walk no matter what you think of those things. Spend 20 minutes on duolingo for like no reason, and learn just simple words in any other language.
I’m a total romantic, and a brooder, (I wish I were not) (lol it took me forever to decide to put that in the subjunctive) and I promise it gets better. If you make it better.
I’m on the same boat. I think time will do it, even though it might take long. But one day, you’ll come to a realization and you’ll snap out of it. Then you’ll wonder how it took you so long to get over it, because your mind will be clearer, you would’ve grown and changed as as individual. In the meantime, find some distractions. Learn a new hobby, be with your friends/family, drink, get high, fuck. Your choice. Just take care of yourself and be kind to you and everyone else around you. Most importantly, accept that feeling numb and sad is part of the process and it’s something we all have to go through sometimes. It’ll make you stronger. It’s the both the beauty and tragedy of being a human being.
I’m so sorry you ( or anyone for the matter) are going thought that. I’ve been thought dealing with a broken heart six months ago and all those questions flooded my mind for a long time.
Although it might not seem like it, it’ll get easier, it really will but mindset is everything. I took my experience as an opportunity to become a better me, changed my looks, joined a gym (lost 40 pounds since then), changed my diet and I feel better and happier overall.
Even thought you might not feel like surrounding yourself with anyone, I suggest you do that exactly. Friends and family are there for a reason.
Remember, as bad as it seems right now, you have an opportunity to build your best self, to live your best life. Do what you like, do what you forgot you liked and rediscover yourself. Soon enough you will feel better but it’ll take time, just don’t sit around loathing and keep busy, really busy.
For me the realization of real breakthroughs came from nowhere, just keep positive. Only recently I’ve starting dating again and I can tell you, although scary, it’s so fun.
It is not the end, it’s merely the beginning of a long new chapter.
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Watch happy shows, listen to happy music, get out get active. Keep doing and set some goals. It will get better!
Yes, it goes away with time. However, don’t wait for that time to finally come. Start rebuilding yourself now. That way, when the pain finally does go away, you have already moved on with your life, instead of starting at a much later point.
This is the worst feeling to have. I would not wish this hurt upon my enemy. It will get better with time, though. Hang in there!
It never goes away. You just get bitter and jaded. Have a nice life.
You just have to make up your mind