Dating : Can a male truly fall in love with a woman without meeting her? Feedback wanted.
How does a male feel he can be in love with me when he has never met me, nor ever spoke with Me over the phone?
We have had many email exchanges.
However, he won’t speak over the phone and is evasive about some things about himself.
I sometimes wonder if he knows me in real life, and I am just not realizing this.
It’s a game or ruse of some sort, Right?
No. Only the fantasy version that we make up in our heads about them.
I’ve fallen in love with someone I’ve never seen before, but we did speak to eachother. So I do think it is possible to some extend, but it is partial in a way as the physical attraction wasn’t there at that point. But it did come as soon as we did meet in person.
My parents did letter exchanges before they ever met and they’ve been together over 30 years and counting.
So I would say it is certainly possible for it to be real.
Being evasive about certain topics isn’t an issue in my opinion. Some topic take a greater bond of trust before it can be addressed.
An unwillingness to be closer together however can be. You can’t be just text forever. You could try asking him for a timeline, so ask him when he wants to talk over the phone (or internet voice-chat for that matter). At the very least he can tell you why and what it takes to move forward. It can help to expressly say that you’d like to hear him.
NO. I learned the hard way. Youre in for a ruuuude awakening when you meet.
It happened to me, unfortunately. Six month before that, I was laughing and mocking some kid that told me he once fell in love at first sight. Karma is a mirror.
But, it’s mostly an infatuation, in love with the idea of being by someone. Everyone is different, but for me personally, I got blinded by her beauty. I will probably never get over not doing things a different way, but that’s life.
Catfish
He can call in love with the idea of you, the same way someone can fall in love with a celebrity.
No is the short answer
Until you meet, it’s all a fantasy in my opinion
No.
No excuse for not talking on the phone, except maybe if he has a really high pitched voice he’s embarrassed about ehehe.
Catfish.
Some people fall in love with fictional characters. Nevertheless it’s a peception of the person that people can fall in love with, and often times reality is quite different. Brain chemistry, man.
What the fuck do you think? Get off your phone.