Dating : Can’t get over insecurity caused directly by other people.
I’ve been single for 2 years and I’m at a point where all the negative things people have said to me are holding me back. And not things like « Oh I saw someone comment on Reddit about this and I’m projecting on myself » I mean people said this shit to my face.
I can’t get over that she said my red flag was not going to college and having two jobs. I just can’t. I know every other woman is looking down on me now.
Oh…I get it. It’s someone else’s fault you don’t try.
Literally no one else’s opinion of you matters. NO ONE’S!!! Repeat that!
Only your opinion of you matters. Screw all that other shit.
So all it took was one person calling you out on red flags for them? Who gives a shit what she thinks? Grow a pair and stop being a whiny pussy