Dating : Constant rejection and not really upset just confused
So I think we all know (or should know) that rejection is a part of dating and it stings but we should always move forward and learn and keep trying. I always have up and down streaks with dating but lately for the past 6 months I’ve been rejected non stop, reasons ranging from me not being their type or outside forces in their life making them not interested in dating . I just never had it happen this much and it stings but I’ve been learning a lot and I’m still happy overall. Maybe it’s a weird phase in my dating life but it’s just a confusing thing has anyone else had this happen? I’m still chilling and having fun but it is something I’ve noticed lately and maybe soon my luck will change lol.
Hey, you’re still happy overall.
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Maybe it’s the places you’re going that you aren’t vibing with? Online dating apps are tough too, so I would definitely avoid that for a while.
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Work on yourself. If you go out, just be happy enjoying time with friends. Don’t even try to approach guys/girls and try to be comfortable with yourself again. Definitely do do things that make you happy or work towards a goal.
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Once you have some recent fun experiences, tell those stories to groups of friends, even if they’re all just friends. Rejection can get in your head, and there will be a million people telling you you’re just not used to rejection; that’s b.s. A 6 month streak of rejection will get the best of anyone.
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Focus on yourself for a while, even a week or two can let you reset your mind.
In business failure is looked at to work out who is held accountable.
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Granted dating means you wont achieve what you want, however that clearly does not allow accountability off the hook, if both sides knows the end goal and 1 side actively hides there tru objective that makes them accountable to the resulting outcome.
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To many times ive seen women clearly KNOW what the guys is after and yet let him keep trying to go out with her when she knows she has no interest, that makes HER ACCOUNTABLE, she she clearly answer there is no interest and never will be. If this happened more there would be less issues.
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I do trade shows, i have had many people come up and say « do you have many staff, are you looking for staff », if i didnt say « we are not looking for staff right now » that would hold me accountable when he goes off and does a HUGE resume and letter and sends it in for work i dont have, i knowingly let him waste his time, to then say « well he never actually asked for a job, i didnt know he would do that » clealy shows a huge lack respect in my behalf, clearly him asking about work wasnt out of pure fascination of how well my company is doing !
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If i guy approaches a women asking her how her day was and what she enjoys doing, if she clearly has no interest, cleaming he never actually asked her out at that point when he then comes back again shows either more ignroance than i can assume or some hidden agenda from her (like wanting attention and claiming she never knew he was interested in her).
I’m 34m and have been rejected by every girl I asked out. I’m at the point of not being interested in asking anyone out anymore