Dating : ‘Covert’ flirting – outrageous
This started happening recently.
My gf will be by my side as we walk around town and she will often be making hand gestures she thinks I don’t see.
I’ve noticed if we’re not talking she will see a guy (old, young ugly good looking…it doenst matter) and as if impulsively, put her fingers or finger to her lips which looks like she’s signalling dick to mouth – yes I’m not even fucking kidding.
She does this gesture a lot. She’ll suddenly put her index finger to her lips or to her teeth when she notices a guy.
Another time she put her finger on her tongue and then put it in the air in the direction of a guy to indicate ‘you’re hot’ – at the time I couldn’t actually believe it.
We kissed on a bus, she came to me, and went for tongue immediately, and she had her eyes open and I could see her looking at the passenger behind us through the gap in the seats.
Later I turned around and saw it was some middle aged woman.
I can’t relax in public because she is honestly doing this weird shit all the time we’re not engaged in chat or focused on something.
Have you heard of anything so fucking absurd?
It’s like an uncontrollable impulse for her at times…she’s clearly neurotic attention seeking and fucking crazy.
honestly, it seems like you’re projecting.
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her action sounds more like a nervous « unconscious » habit, than anything else.
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sounds like you want an excuse to break up if that’s the worst of her habits.
I mean, I would just ask her about it calmly. Don’t be overbearing when talking about it, and just relay how it makes you feel when you see her do it.
Maybe its an unconscious thing or maybe not, either way you wont get anywhere just seething about it.
Good luck