Dating : Crush on girl way hotter than I am, need to get over 🙁
TL;Dr – girl giving mixed signals
I’m gonna try to keep this short –
1. Met girl way hotter than me at a party. We bonded over common topics and started talking on Instagram.
2. This was 2 months ago, we’ve basically spoken everyday since that day
3. She’s way hotter than me and is seeing other guys. She’s constantly telling me « how cute I am » but I knoe it’s in a friendly way. (I’m definitely in the friendzone)
4. Last week I went for her birthday party where she paraded me as the ‘nicest guy’. Spent the entire night talking to only me (amongst like 10 of her other friends). I left with her and dropped her drunk ass home and went back home.
5. I can’t help thinking about her, until her birthday I was okay being just her friend because I don’t want to date her anyway (atleast that’s what I thought)
6. We are absolutely different, she’s a party girl and I’m more of a have a quiet dinner kinda guy. I work in IT and she works at Versace lol. So there’s pretty much nothing.
7. I tried icing her out and not responding immediately, she messaged me saying how much she misses talking to me and we don’t talk as much.
8. She responds when she feels like and sometimes gets weirdly passive
How do I get over this? I dont want to get into a relationship. I’m going on casual dates and I think that’s enough for me right now. But I just can’t help thinking about her all the fucking time.
