Dating : Dating and sex
I’ve gone on a few dates with this guy, date #5 later this week. We’ve only kissed/made out. He started trying to get handsy on our last date when we ended up watching a movie at his place after dinner out. He didn’t push me or pressure me, but really I had sticky boobs on and didn’t want him touching them 🤣 anyways, curious when he’d be expecting/wanting to go further? Like down there and sex? He’s about 7 years older than me and I’m in my 20s
Most men are ready to go further the moment you consent to go back to their place. Usually you consenting to be in their “den” is an opening for them to try and get you into bed, and it’s up to you to emphatically say yes and participate, or say no and put up a boundary he needs to respect. If you’re inexperienced, now is the time to see if you want to have sex with him or not. Just go for it or don’t. Culturally, it would be up to you to choose the timing. Also culturally, a man will make decisions on dating a girl based on if his needs are being met in relationship to the emotional needs and how much he likes her as a person. Some men will hang on for a few months because they like a girl so much and don’t mind waiting for the goodies. Some men think if she holds out, she doesn’t have the same sex drive or needs that he does (which is important in a relationship). Others might just think you’re a prude.
What matters if how you feel, what your timing is, and maybe communicate it to him. Say you need a little more time before you jump into bed with him, but it’s not because you’re not into it.
Communicate. What he does in response will show you who he is, what he’s looking for, and if he’s a good match. And it doesn’t reflect on you at all.
He wanted desert!! :)~
LOL! You think he cared your boobs were sticky:)
He’s probably already wanting to push further just going a bit slow so you’re ok with it.
Men are ready to go further when you say “let’s go further” in most cases
Date #3 you guys should have at least fucked.
what’s the fuckin point of dating if there’s no sex lmao
U gotta pay 4 that meal some way…