Dating : Dating for Ever
When I look at my uncles they all used to have beautiful wives and now their women are fat old and ugly and none of them work. Why should we get married if we can just keep dating new people each month or each year? I am asking because I don’t want to end up like them and now they have to work until they die to support their lazy wives.
Shocker: people get older.
You will also get older and (probably) less attractive. The pool of single and available women will also get a lot smaller and probably less like what you like.
If you don’t want to be with someone who wants to be a housewife, don’t. Many women want a career and to be independent.
Maybe you haven’t been in actual love with someone unconditionally. Sure, the initial attraction needs to be there, but we all get older, out of shape and not a perfect 10 our whole lives. Truly loving someone unconditionally means just that, without any condition. Looks, money, what they do in their spare time. It means you love and care about a person enough because they add happiness to your already happy life. They don’t love them on the condition that they stay beautiful all the time.
If you feel like you can keep a revolving door of attractive women your whole life then go for it. But you might break up with a person who can give you unconditional love and think you’ll meet another perfect 10 but end up single from that day on because you’re older and not as attractive.
Happiness comes from within, not from looks. You might buy a car that you love and fantasize about but after you drive it for a year, it’s just another car. I’m not saying woman are cars, I’m saying the honeymoon stage dwindles out.