Dating : Dating my best friend after finally telling her how I feel
This is definitely the best thing that’s happened to me in recent years, ever since my ex called off our wedding I had be struggling with self-esteem issues and anxiety as this was all totally out of the blue,
As I got back out there dating again I found myself more and more attracted to my best friend and not just her personality but I had put up boundaries as we both work together in senior management roles and I am a bit older M(28) F(22) not to mention her previous boyfriends have all been much better looking and younger than me
Long story short I had feelings for her for almost 2 months until I finally decided I had to tell her the only problem was she beat me to the punch and told me she had the same feelings for over 3 months now,
We’ve been together officially for 2 months and by far the best thing about dating your best friend is you automatically skip the first few steps of a relationship, I already know everything about her and she knows everything about me this is also the EASIEST relationship I’ve ever been in.
Great to hear man! When I told my best friend how I felt about her I lost my friend unfortunately. Few years later my girlfriend left me for her best friend and they are in a strong loving relationship. Crazy the twists and turns we get and the tests.
Happy for you bro, dating your girl best friend sounds awesome!
senior management? What careers do you have? Do you work together?
I went on a date with a girl last week that I’ve known for almost ten years. I wouldn’t call her my best friend but we’ve certainly been buddies at the very least. She’s really my sister’s friend.
We both admitted to each other that we liked each other a couple weeks ago. We’ve been on one date but it was awesome and we’ve been talking every day. It’s weird that someone so awesome has been there all along right in front of me. I guess things happen when they’re meant to.
>not to mention her previous boyfriends have all been much better looking and younger than me
Stop *Running Yourself Down.*
If she actually wanted to be with them, then why did she confess her feeling for you?
Self-pity is a real sickness.
Nice man, good thing you had the courage to tell her, even if she had rejected you.
Super cool story!
Read somewhere that marrying your bestfriend decreases your chances of breakup by a significant percent. Anyways, congrats!
Happy for both of you ❤️
Good on you
That’s so nice that it worked out for you. Yay!
That’s beautiful!! ❤️ Happy for y’all!
Happy for you man!
I told my best girl friend that I had feelings for her, but she didn’t feel the same way. I think the best part was that since she was so cool, it didnt even bother me. Went right back to being friends. I look back at it now and realize it wouldn’t have worked. Good friends, but different life styles. That’s just my experience though.
This is great. Please don’t forget to date her though. Dating a best friend is cool because they probably know all about your bad habits, but you must keep the spark alive and continue to find out more about each other. Best wishes.
Love is the best thing in this world until it isn’t.
This has nothing to do with me.